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Every time I leave the house, my husband goes missing. Because of this, I don’t attend social events. When someone invites me to a wedding, I don’t go. When someone close to me loses a loved one, I do my best to offer them my sympathies without showing up at the funeral. When anything is happening in my hometown, I don’t even attempt to go.

Just this Saturday, I had to attend a funeral here in Accra. My relationship with the bereaved made it difficult for me not to attend. So I decided to just step out for a few hours. By the time I returned, my husband was gone. As I am writing this, I don’t know where he is. My only comfort is that his car is parked at home. That’s even because I ceased his keys. If not he would have driven it away.

The last time he disappeared with his car he came home without it. I had to go on a search party before I found it parked somewhere with the key in it. Thankfully, someone else didn’t get to it first. This is what happens when you are married to a man who has a drinking problem. You are always on edge, terrified that if you let him out of your sight, he would run off and drink himself to death.

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Was he like this when I met him? The answer is yes. Don’t get me wrong, he is not the kind of man who drinks every day. He has a good job that pays him very well. He is a high-ranking staff. So he spends most of his days sober.

He is a quiet and well-behaved man. He is also very caring and extremely generous. I remember when I first met him. I was struggling to find my feet in life. All I had was an SHS certificate that couldn’t help me get my dream job. Moses offered to send me to school and take care of all my fees. I didn’t believe him at first. He is about fifteen years older than me so I thought he was probably married and looking to lure me into being his side chick with an offer like that.

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He didn’t agree to my terms. He asked me, “How will your family feel if they find out that I have a child with you but refused to marry you? How will your church take it? I can’t do such a thing. I love you. That’s why I want to marry you so we do things the right way.” I also had feelings for him. How could I not? He is a good man. Besides, he promised to work on his drinking. There was also the problem of coming across as ungrateful should I turn him down. That’s how I come I agreed to marry him.

Things were peaceful between us after marriage. He continued to take good care of me. Everything we use at home is bought in packs. I have not lacked anything. I also do my part as a wife. He doesn’t eat out so when he is going to work, I cook and pack his lunch. And everything is fine when he is sober. We don’t argue, or disagree on things. My only problem was his siblings. They would smile at me and say nasty things behind my back.

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According to them, Moses used to give them money and provide for their needs until he married me. After our marriage, he reduced whatever money he used to give them so they blamed me for that. I don’t know much about my husband’s finances so I don’t dictate what or who he spends money on. This is why I didn’t allow their comments to get to me.

My only concern was helping my husband to overcome his addiction. We tried counselling but it didn’t work. So they started saying that it’s spiritual. I have prayed myself into exhaustion. I have gone with him to see powerful men of God for prayers. We have even gone to see spiritualists and herbalists but nothing they recommended has worked. I’m at my wit’s end as I’m typing this.

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The first time he left home, I didn’t know where to find him. I called his siblings to tell them Moses had gone missing. They just said they would make some calls. For five days I didn’t hear from him. I was about to go to the police station to file a missing person’s report when someone told me, “I saw your husband in his hometown. He is with his brother and sister.” I was shocked. That was the day I understood the depth of their hate for me. How could they not tell me he was with them when I was in tears that my husband was missing?

When I ask them to help us find a solution to his problem, they don’t mind me. They’ve left him for me to handle. When I complained, his sister told me; “It appears you don’t know how to take care of my brother. We heard you don’t even cook for him. If you think you are tired, leave so that I will come and stay with him and take proper care of him.” Their behaviour tells me that they don’t want their brother to get better. It seems they get more money out of him when he is drunk so they want it to continue.

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Honestly, I am scared out of my mind. We have a three-year-old daughter who is so attached to her father. So whenever he leaves the house, she becomes miserable. Which in turn adds to my misery. I keep fearing that the worst would happen. I keep asking myself what will become of me and the baby if he gets drunk one day and doesn’t make it out alive.

Here I am with no income. I had to quit my job when I got pregnant because of the way it affected my health. After that, I am struggling to get another job so I have gone back to school to further my education. And my husband is the one sponsoring my education this time around too. I am dependent on him for all my financial needs.

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There are times I think about leaving him until he comes to his senses and gets better but I can’t. Apart from the part that I am not financially independent enough to leave, I am afraid something bad will happen to him if I leave. There’s also the fear that people will talk about me. His siblings especially. They will call me ungrateful for leaving him at his worst. So I’m still here fighting my hardest to help him get better.

Besides, when I threaten to leave him, he cries and begs me until I decide to stay. I identified his triggers and realized he only starts drinking when I travel or step out of the house for a few hours. This is why I am always at home. I have no social life. This whole thing is draining me psychologically and emotionally. I have even decided to see a psychologist because I have gotten depressed. I can’t eat anymore. The moment I think about his addiction, I lose my appetite. Needless to say that I have lost weight drastically. Meanwhile, people see me and I assume I am happy.

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The other day I found out I was pregnant. I couldn’t bear to bring another child into this situation so I got rid of it. This is how bad things are. I am crying as I am writing this because I don’t know where to go and him. When it happens like this too, he doesn’t pick up my calls until he gets sober and returns home. And I have no idea when he will come back. Unfortunately, I cannot count on his family to help me.

I know that I entered into this marriage with my eyes open but I don’t know how much of this I can take anymore. I need help. I need counsel. I need comfort. The only people I talk to about this, are my parents and they are out of suggestions as well. What can I do to kick this problem out of our lives for good? Or do I leave with my daughter and start life without him?

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  1. Nkay

    August 8, 2023 at 11:14 pm

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      August 10, 2023 at 9:42 pm

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  3. Prophetess Lilian

    August 9, 2023 at 12:43 am

    Talk to your pastor about this and let him handle it. And if under 12 calenders month which is a year, while you are waiting pls look for a job, get something doing and stop depending on a man, this would get you more frustrated and depressed. After 1 year of no solution, pls quit the relationship. And go wait on the Lord for a rebuild.
    It’s obvious that the family have hands in his oddles so, do not expect anything good from a selfish and wicked settlings such as where you’ve found yourself. May the Lord help you in all ramifications in Jesus name.

    • Cordelia ome

      August 9, 2023 at 8:49 am

      Then, never leave him on his own. You can attend occasions that both of you can go together. Remember your vows. Too, I think it’s wrong for you to termit your pregnancy bcos your daughter needs a second. You may wish to take him to the SCOAN for deliverance as your last resort

      • Elizabeth

        August 17, 2023 at 1:38 pm

        You have said well

    • Agbor clara

      August 9, 2023 at 2:51 pm

      Please madam I think your husband has a spiritual attack causing him to misbehave in drunkenness or pushing him to list for drinking. You better take him to a living church for prayers and deliverance that is why God permitted him to see such a calm and patience wife like you.
      Have you ever asked why he gets lost and list for drinking or ourt whenever you leave home? Because you are a protector to him. Don’t be surprised his problem is from home. They useless him for them to enjoy his earnings that’s why they even backbite you. The only thing you can do is to embark on prayers. It isn’t a physical warfare but spiritual.

      • Evangelist Ajah Reuben

        August 10, 2023 at 10:25 am

        The cross of calvary-the blood of the new covenant has the answer to your predicament. John 19:28 & 30. I decree over his life that the force of drunkenness be broken, FINISH from his blood life in Jesus Christ Mighty Name Amen. If only he gives his life to Jesus Christ, he will overcome it. Prayerfully do just that. Thanks

        • Annie Nyirenda

          August 14, 2023 at 4:58 am

          Don’t leave him,if u do u ll add to his problems,he knows that u don’t like it when he drinks,he also fight his drinking problem silently.it’s good he becomes sober and work.u have been told it’s spiritual,so he’s not at fault,he has just failed to control it,let the man of God intervene.God ll not let u down believe me.

        • John

          August 17, 2023 at 5:00 am

          Very simple, a demon is behind these.Take authority over it.Say,
          You this demon manipulating my husband into drinking, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, I take authority over you and I command to stop and decease from manipulating my husband now.hold your ground and start thanking God.

      • ADEOLA AWEDA

        August 13, 2023 at 5:42 am

        Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!
        You’ve really said the true fact!
        God bless you

        • Meg Eyo

          August 31, 2023 at 7:31 am

          Sis take him to mountain of fire ministry for deliverance it is so obvious that the drunkenness is a spiritual issue and done by his family. So assist him by handling him completely to God and take him out for any social events so that he will always be by your sight

  4. Filder

    August 9, 2023 at 12:52 am

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    • Chinenye Lucy

      August 28, 2023 at 8:23 pm

      Iam feeling for you my dear sister and I understand how painful it is to see a man you love in that condition; I will advice you to be going to occasion with him and never feel irritated over him or shout at him when misbehaved at the occasion rather take it easy with him and talk to him gently in a way he will understand you; cary him like a baby in any accasion you go with him. My sister,there are some issues you tackle gently with your GOD without involving men of GOD cos you don’t even know who is who. Iam talking to you based on experience I had 2020-20232 it might sound funny: it was pray that settles the mater: it is a greater testimony that can’t be shared here. When you read Mathew 24: 1- end, you will understand what I meant. My dear,I will advice you to keep on crying unto your GOD every 12mid- nit dot with you palms like 35, 109, 121… You can also use only a particular chapter like ps 35 cotinuesly but esure it 12 dot. Cry & Pray with these words of GOD and not just saying the words.In your prayers, use worships to bring down the glory of GOD Almighty. This prayers might take 20,30 or an hour. It doesn’t matter how long my dear, the CREATOR of heaven and earth shall surely grant you request. Another one is;to always call your children to always round him and pray for him. Most importantly, if you are not in good term with your mother and father in-laws, try and settle with them especially your Mother in-law by always sending things or money to them no matter how small…just as you do to your Mum. Then after a while invite your mother in-law to your house and narrate the story to her; she will definitely pray for your husband cos she is the mother and she has authority over him but if the woman is no more continue with your prayers as you let your own Mum knows about it. Concerning your husband’s siblings, don’t allow that to bother you so much human beings are just that. Moreso, never remove a child again my sister. The Almighty GOD will surely help you dear.

  5. Tinde Awe

    August 9, 2023 at 1:34 am

    I think this requires prayer of inquiry, forGod to reveal the source of the problem so u know where to direct prsyers and physical efforts. Its obvious his family only keep him for their selfish reasons, nothing more.

  6. Banda ziyelesa

    August 9, 2023 at 2:54 am

    Be with him it will be over soon bad part the siblings they’re sacking the blood from a sufferer don’t there brother

  7. [email protected]

    August 9, 2023 at 3:22 am

    Vsory dear, staying in relationships with aman who’s drunkdness is not easy but pray to the lord,he hz asoln to every situatio, .

  8. Shanita

    August 9, 2023 at 3:33 am

    My dear no one is 100 percent perfect. May be that is his weakness you are supposed to bare with as a wife. Try going out with him when ever he goes out. But leaving him won’t be a solution because his daughter is attached to him. Try entering into his zone. That I think will help him control that habbit.

  9. Nancy Arthur

    August 9, 2023 at 4:15 am

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  10. Okonofua ChristIana

    August 9, 2023 at 4:21 am

    God factor is the solution. You don’t have a relationship with God. How on earth ould you take a precious life that God was bringing to you because of your situation. You need to deal with yourself first. You are self l-centered. Your husband is not bad at all. He only have a weakness which understanding and patience and prayer can handle.Please show him love and stop nagging him. Is your attitude to him when he gets drunk that is keeping aay from home. It is for better for worse. Don’t ever think of living him you will regret it.

    • Famuyibo Toyin

      August 9, 2023 at 11:46 am

      So sorry about your predicament but be calm and courageous there is solution with God, please contact this numbers God bless you. +234 803 837 8868 or+234 803 396 3629

      • Jimmy kwoolobo

        August 17, 2023 at 2:57 am

        Haha giving you no_for wat

    • Emmanuel Maijeji

      August 10, 2023 at 1:43 pm

      You are right my brother, you cannot solve problem with problem, and in the situation like this you need to come closer to God and be God fearing.

    • Rekhia

      August 15, 2023 at 5:40 am

      Men! This is pity/ selfish statement. If it were to be the other way, will he stay?

  11. Israel Etim

    August 9, 2023 at 4:53 am

    You did not mention your name. Did you? Perhaps not necessary. A song says; ‘Take everything to God in prayer?’ Lady that is the ultimate solution to problem of any kind.From William Shakespeare; I quote ‘a desperate case needs a desperate remedy’ Be extremely serious with Almighty God, sober to Him. Fill your heart with Him as you pray and fast.Speak like Joshua spoke to God – ‘untill you bless me I will not leave you. And He actually bless him. It can only be impossible with man, But when God takes over, impossibility turns possible. (Matthew 19 verse 26) Lady! with the above key to solution, go and find please and success in your marriage and your entire life. You are blessed.

  12. Moses

    August 9, 2023 at 5:27 am

    My dear there’s nothing God Can not Do, please I will advice you hold on to your faith as God will heal your husband from this demonic attack soon, from your story you have confess how Good your husband is and let me remind you that bad thing happened to Good people this is just a face of life believe in God and he will come to your need sooner or later.

  13. Eugene mukuka

    August 9, 2023 at 5:59 am

    Seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these things with be added unto you.. start praying for him with people of God he will change and leaving him is not the solution like you said earlier on that the moment you leave home he goes to drink.. just stop leaving him and be a full time house wife and also you should ask him to start paying you since he gets good 💰 you can also start investing in premises becouse you cannot go for work and leave him.. you are ONE body he’s your has and.

    • Osbon

      August 9, 2023 at 3:15 pm

      Yeah,very true but tell her to ask for forgiveness from God for killing the innocent creature, remember abortion is not accepted.

  14. Michael

    August 9, 2023 at 6:49 am

    I must let you understand that everyone has purposes in live made by God the creator. Your husband might be one of the purposes God sent you in this world to save. I will advice you don’t get depressed because your husband’s drinking habit just get the right drinks for him in the house give him the best food his favourites and make sure you hang out together and take the responsibility of a mother, wife and associate things will change andore over do not do without prayers and go to church activities with him and kids your problem is solved

    • Christian Nelson N.

      August 9, 2023 at 10:19 am

      Go and ask God to forgive you for the termination of the baby… Be the prayer engine and liberate your husband from the spirit of drunkards also contact your spiritual pastor for prayers as well. Place your husband on psychotherapy and watch him manage his action and feelings gradually. Always educate him on the dangers of drinking alcohol and drug abuse.

  15. Ifeoluwa olusegun

    August 9, 2023 at 6:52 am

    Your parents should not be in out of suggestion for this, they should do all what they can to keep your marriage i.e they should act as if your husband is their child.

    • Joseph Wonder

      August 9, 2023 at 1:13 pm

      My advice: Do not blame anybody accept it as part of life’s challenges. I think you are a great woman,that is why you are going through great challenges. All you need is encourage yourself and sorround yourself with positive people. We love you but God loves you more. You will overcome. We are praying for you.

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      • Joy

        August 11, 2023 at 5:23 pm

        My dear God is on top of your case if you can hold unto Him. Rom.8:28, John 16:22. Go to Him first for mercy. Then beg Him to turn around all your problems for your goid. Your Joy no man takes away as God himself sees you again.

        Look for a Bible believing church and hold unto Him for your family. It is well with you.
        Don’t go anywhere. He knows you can do it. He will support you. Give it to Him in prayers.
        I see you testify soonest.

    • Madam theresa commey

      August 9, 2023 at 6:22 pm

      Mama thess 0274308791 call me i will help stay in your marriage but dont shate your problems God will see you throgh

  16. Okubo Jeremiah N

    August 9, 2023 at 7:46 am

    We are most time the problem of ourselves. A Christian you said, what has herbalist, babalawo spiritualist has to do in your life. A child of God, stay focus and be more fervent with God’s service. With God ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE And all things are possible to him THAT BELIEVES. Stop the consultation of evil forces, love his siblings and stop seeing them as the cause, then allow God’s blessing of your union to be.God bless

    • Gerty111

      August 9, 2023 at 12:24 pm

      Watch Emmanuel tv and join P T B Joshua and Mama Evelyn Joshua in prayer God will see you through. You will see several cases that are more than this which God has use PTB Joshua to deliver yours will not be different. So try to watch Emmanuel tv and pray along with P T P Joshua.

    • Lydia Mpinda

      August 14, 2023 at 7:20 am

      Being a born again Christian, you should avoid visiting sites that would be mixing God Almighty.how on earth can you abort for heavens sake and claim you are saved? You denied someone life and also you denied your daughter a bro or sis you must repent before GOD seriously. As concerns your husbby nothing defeats GOD. Keep praying He has no destbin for prayers. In this case only holiness will help you. Don’t confuse God and stay at home for now for he won’t get out when you are in. May Jehovah’s GOD remember mercy on you and your husband will be restored. Peace,Peace peace.

  17. Za❤️my

    August 9, 2023 at 7:50 am

    Why don’t you convince your husband when he is not drunk and persuade him that you guys should go abroad and start a new lives

    Tell him not to tell his siblings

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    August 9, 2023 at 9:16 am

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    August 9, 2023 at 9:30 am

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    August 9, 2023 at 9:35 am

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    August 9, 2023 at 9:39 am

    It’s disheartening but with God all things are possible join freedom time praying partners on facebook is(FTPP the Lord has done it or Prophet Bernard Owusu Ansa)on youtube is freedom live l assure you this drinking problem will vanish in a month don’t Give up give it a try

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    August 9, 2023 at 10:24 am

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  23. CJ NWA Jesus

    August 9, 2023 at 10:32 am

    Yes, I can help if only you will be able to go the way I should direct you, if truly u are in this kind of problem, but before I proceed, know u very well that the problem is from ur husband’s house 🏠. But apart from this I can help you and lead you to a man of God that can destroy All this by the power of God in Jesus name, just believe God. I know God will surely see you through you can contact me then I will lead you there distance may not be a barrier. SO SORRY DEAR

  24. Famuyibo Toyin

    August 9, 2023 at 11:47 am

    So sorry about your predicament but be calm and courageous there is solution with God, please contact this numbers God bless you. +234 803 837 8868 or+234 803 396 3629

    • Sadi

      August 10, 2023 at 12:46 am

      That is sad Mma, I will pray with you also. Please you have to pray as well and ask God to forgive you because you did a terrible thing also; you were not supposed to get rid of that child he /she was not the reason for what you are going through, may be that child came along because God wanted to see how strong you are on him, remember God is good and faithful all the time he won’t give you more than you can handle. Do not bother about your husband’s siblings God is with you.

  25. Sunday Bonnet

    August 9, 2023 at 1:58 pm

    The only way out is to stay put my sister. Every marriage you see out there is carrying one cross or the other. Carry your cross my sister. Pray to God to help you reach golgatha to obtain victory like our Lord Jesus Christ. Remember there’s light at the end of every turnel. God bless you.

  26. Lawrence Bezagrebere

    August 9, 2023 at 1:59 pm

    This is your cross to carry as a Christian. You are the chosen one by God for him, and you owe it a duty to stay in this marriage to honour God, and his reward for you shall be great in the end. Please, you have not mentioned anywhere about your husband attending church with you. Please, introduce him to God by taking him to church, and God will do the trick. You are looking to solve a problem of a child of God, without God. You are ungrateful to God, the reason why you are not getting the solution. Stop adding sins to your problems, by aborting the gifts of children God is generous with you in the midst of this problem. Maybe, that child you aborted could’ve been the solution to the problem. You forgot of God in your quest for a solution. Honour and obidience to God is more important than prayers. God luck!

  27. Joseph Oko

    August 9, 2023 at 4:16 pm

    Madam ,am already sharing tears on your behalf,but never mind,
    There’s a solution to every problem,
    God in heaven is seeing what you are going through.
    From today change your prayers of petition to prayer of Thanksgiving,
    Thanking God always for giving you such a wonderful man as a husband, thanking God for delivering him,
    Spiritual battles are won with our knees,I wish you best of luck

    Meanwhile,you should consider having more children for him no matter the situation,God is seeing everything.

  28. Sarah Amanimaa

    August 9, 2023 at 9:43 pm

    Is my prayer God come to ur aid. Some families are not easy to deal with ooo they ll never agree with u to take their precious jewel from them completely ooo so they find a way to take them back from you and ur story is a very good example. I would advise that from now onwards be his outings partner, go to the gathering with him or u both stay at home and have a good time, be extra careful with his siblings too, also remember the biggest key PRAYER and I know God ll never put u to shame.

  29. Atimbire Awafo Edward

    August 10, 2023 at 5:46 am

    Please my dear sister, continue to play your part as a responsible wife and seek for God interventions. Don’t forget what you the two went through for all this while and you’ve also done a great job by appreciating the efforts that he impacted in you and still doing. Again I will advice you get him more children because time is never our friend once you accepted him to be your husband and don’t forget that may be God wants to use you to transform his life. So like I said earlier continue your responsibilities and seeks for God’s interventions. But Please I take responsibilities for all errors or misinformation that may be occurred occur in this written.

  30. Amaka

    August 10, 2023 at 9:05 am

    This is so worried. May be when he become drunk like that to the extend that he does not know himself. Take him to a morgue, discuss with the morgue attendant in that place. Let him lay him close to one of them. When he wake up, he will become afraid that he should not belong. May be by so doing that fear will made he to have a rethink and stop. I come in peace. Everything is not all about prayers

  31. Pst.CHOSEN

    August 10, 2023 at 9:33 am

    First and foremost, i thanks God for your life, husband and child for his saving grace upon your life to endured to this extend may his name be praise forever in Jesus name Amen. There is no need for us to talk about who did wrong and right because the mistake has already been made by the both parties. What I want to tell you, is nothing but the solution to you and your husband problems.If you really want out of this problems and lives peacefully with your husband, then as I am talking to you now, start making preparation towards it. If you are not in Nigeria precisely, try as much as possible to look for money for your transport fair and come to Warri Delta State Nigeria. In free indeed ministry all your problems will be solved. Address of the ministry: no, 14 peter Doro street opposite army permanent camp, Igbokidi warri Delta State. The name of the Ministry: GOD’s DELIGHT GOSPEL ASSEMBLY.( A.K.A. FREE INDEED MINISTRY) The name of the Pastor: Pastor JOHNMARK IGHOSOTU. Call my line for directions: 07033896189. NOTE: Don’t listen to the devil 👿 to discourage you and leave your marriage. If you are in Nigeria currently, which means make it very fast,the delay will be dangerous.

  32. Pst.CHOSEN

    August 10, 2023 at 9:38 am

    In addition, believed me this will be your final buss stop. Even you are already left the marriage,come God will restore. It painful to me that I got this message late, but it’s not too late for God to restore your home.

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    August 10, 2023 at 12:52 pm

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    • AAO

      August 19, 2023 at 10:02 am

      My Lady,so sorry for all you have been going through. Living with a drunk is the worst thing that can happen to any woman. The first solution is to surrender ur whole life to Jesus Christ and become properly born again. This will enable you get the right virtues that will help you fight this battle before u. What virtues? Love, patience, endurance, long-suffering, godliness etc. I want to open your eyes very well. Ur inlaws have a hand in what is happening to their brother. It is called spirit of witchcraft ( manipulation). You need love of God to overcome their intrigues. The bibles says u should do good to ur enemy, by so doing, u will pour coal of fire upon his /her head. If you have not been loving them, begin to love them unreservedly and pray also for their Repentance. After you must have worked on yourself ( your heart), begin to seek assistance from genuine men and women of God for intercession for your husband. The aim of your inlaws is to useless ur husband so as to be sapping him. But you have to be courageous. In summary, give your life to Christ and He will give you victory. You can call me on this number 08032709817

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      August 27, 2023 at 8:41 am

      Please, madam,get in touch with professor Nathan Uzormah protus, on phone number +2348138731416. God will surely use him to solve this problem. God bless you…

  34. Emmanuel Maijeji

    August 10, 2023 at 1:49 pm

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  35. Pastor P. O. Momoh

    August 10, 2023 at 8:04 pm

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  36. Chinyere E. G

    August 11, 2023 at 11:54 pm

    There is God in Heaven and He
    hears and answers prayers. Please take him to any Watchman Catholic Charismatic Renewal Movement close to you. God will show you people Mercy and deliver him.

  37. Pat one

    August 12, 2023 at 10:08 pm

    Don’t leave him.but rather look for a nanny at home and try going out with him to have limited drink’s at times then bring him back safely

  38. Kingdavid

    August 13, 2023 at 8:57 am

    I really feel for you, how traumatized, frustrated and lonely you and your daughter are right now. From the start of my heart reading this article, the first thing that registered into my mind was tha, your husband’s family and most likely a set of his siblings are responsible for his predicament just to have control of his estates. So it’s a spiritual case. They have built stronghold around him. Still go to God with him in prayer & fasting, I hope you attend a living church, involve your pastor. May you obtain God mercy and deliverance upon him and your family in Jesus name.

  39. Father lawrence

    August 13, 2023 at 1:00 pm

    COME TO OPM CHURCH ALUU PORT HARCOURT R/STATE. JUST COME WITH HIM AND ATTEND SUNDAY SERVICE. AFTER THE SERVICE, REQUEST TO SEE PASTOR AMADI. THEY DIRECT YOU TO HIS OFFICE. COME BELIEVING, DR JESUS WILL HEAL HIM.

  40. Prince

    August 13, 2023 at 2:57 pm

    The killing of an unborn child was your greatest mistake you will live with and I condemn such, talking with him to reveal what his regrets were about,he has some secrets that haunts him, you talk and promise to keep it between you two seeking Gods face genuinely to forgive your act of killing and unborn child who would have been a key to bring comfort to your home.

  41. Victory

    August 13, 2023 at 5:57 pm

    My dear I feel your pain but your problem is within you and it is only you that can stand and take your husband deliverance from house hold enemy my dear cry no more what God can not do will not exist the God who gives me peace will do it for you . One thing I want you to do for me I total repentance of all the wrong places you have went or taken husband to because of this problem WhatsApp me with this line let’s talk more about it. There is a man to pray and there is God that answer’s prayers my dear there are things you can do and there are what God will do for you thanks

  42. Lydia Mpinda

    August 14, 2023 at 7:22 am

    Being a born again Christian, you should avoid visiting sites that would be mixing God Almighty.how on earth can you abort for heavens sake and claim you are saved? You denied someone life and also you denied your daughter a bro or sis you must repent before GOD seriously. As concerns your husbby nothing defeats GOD. Keep praying He has no destbin for prayers. In this case only holiness will help you. Don’t confuse God and stay at home for now for he won’t get out when you are in. May Jehovah’s GOD remember mercy on you and your husband will be restored. Peace,Peace peace.

  43. Peters

    August 15, 2023 at 9:03 am

    Go to God in fervent prayers, provided you have no idol in your heart, God is ever faithful, He will hear and answer your prayer, and you will testify to the goodness of God.

  44. Paulina Samiit

    August 17, 2023 at 2:08 am

    If u are in Ghana here please take him to broken yoke ministry prophet Kpega Tamkloe God will use him to help both of you @nungua teshie under breach okay sister

  45. Jimmy kwoolobo

    August 17, 2023 at 3:14 am

    My dear don’t leave that guy but don’t forcefully stop him you set him free and pretend as if you are also enjoying reach to an extent of buying for him and bring it at home so after seeing that he is very free and doesn’t fear you then you can now begin to enter into his heart slow-ly the reason why he takes it in your absence coz he fears you that why your advice, prayer , counseling doesn’t move through him because his heart is not open, try that you will tell me the feedback but remember it’ll take time

  46. ANIAH GILBERT

    August 17, 2023 at 8:04 am

    The best way is not to always stay at home with him or avoid attending occasions, instead make sure if there is any program you have to attend, move with him everywhere you go.all the occasions you have to attend, make sure the two go together. Just be with him like you are best friends. In that case, there will not be chance for him to drink since he is afraid to drink in your presence.

  47. Constance

    August 20, 2023 at 8:23 pm

    Please don’t leave him but I can be of help somewhere just try to call me on this number 0594786920

  48. John

    August 23, 2023 at 7:11 am

    There’s only one person with the answer u are looking for, and that’s his mother. Until she speak and reveal the secret she’s keeping there will be no solution to what u are looking for. Not that pastors don’t know this, they only refused to talk. They are afraid of what will be the outcome. Mark my words and the day I reply to this post, u will be shocked to know one day that it was his mother.

  49. Tagbo Sabina

    September 2, 2023 at 6:35 am

    Join open hevean God of Evangelist Ebuka Obi will settle your predicament. Love your husband and never remove your pregnancy again.

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