The other day, my boyfriend gave me a salad and said I needed to lose weight

I’m about 5’5″ tall and weigh around 138lbs. I work out regularly and can easily lift 200 lbs when dead-lifting.

The other day, something happened at a restaurant with my boyfriend that left me upset. I was about to order a steak, but he interrupted me and told the waitress that I should have a salad instead. I asked him why he did that, and he said I needed to lose weight because I looked too muscular.

I didn’t let his opinion change my mind, so I told the waitress that I wanted the steak anyway. My boyfriend said he wouldn’t pay for it if I chose the steak, but I didn’t let that stop me. I enjoyed a delicious medium-rare steak all by myself.

The next day, my boyfriend threatened to break up with me unless I started eating salads and being more like what he considered a “lady.”

I realized that my boyfriend was insecure about my muscles or preferred a thinner girl. I didn’t want to be with someone who tried to control what I ate or who I was. So, I made the brave decision to end the relationship today.

He didn’t take it well and started insulting me, calling me names like a “fat bitch” and saying I wouldn’t find anyone better than him because men don’t want a strong woman.

I stood up for myself, telling him to go away and warning him that if he tried to hurt me as he threatened, I would get a restraining order to protect myself.