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My husband Sends almost Half of His Salary to His Mom And Is Affecting Our Home- Woman Narrates

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Please hide my identity. I am a distressed mom and wife. I no longer understand this marriage. No matter how much I try to make meaning out of this union, it baffles me that my husband is comfortably neglecting his duties as a father and husband. We are just a normal family struggling daily to make ends meet. I work frequently to make extra money and help my husband who doesn’t see things like a normal human being. I am a business woman and my husband is a civil servant.

Before we got married, we agreed to set aside some percentage of our income for some projects we want to undertake as a family for example buying lands, making investments and other things. We actually did it for the first year we got married even as we were expecting a child together but subsequently, it changed. I realized that my husband was sending a large chunk of his earnings to his mom. The first month, I overlooked it. I felt it was because she probably had something important she needed money for, it affected how much he sent to our joint account.

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This happened again for the subsequent four months and when I couldn’t pretend anymore, I asked him why he reduced the amount he was sending to our joint account. He told me he increased how much he sent to his mom. Now, I don’t have a problem with increasing how much you send to your mom or siblings but it shouldn’t be at the detriment of I and your child. He said he loves his mom and she sacrificed a lot for him and his siblings and he wants to pay her back. Pay her back with a whopping 40% of your salary? How are we meant to feed?

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I have been confronting him about this but he has refused to change. I have stopped sending money to our joint account, I now save privately. He tried to pick a fight with me but I ignored him. I can’t keep up with such an attitude. Is he the only one the mom sacrifed for? I have a mother too and if I begin to pay her back for her sacrifices, I will have to send her my entire profit and it still won’t be enough. I don’t know what to do. I can’t talk to his siblings because they will definitely see me somehow since it’s their mom. I have tried talking sense into him but all to no avail. How else do you think I should make him come back to his senses?

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