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How My Mother Has Warned Me Not To Get Pregnant For My Husband Because- Woman Narrates Painfully
My Mother Has Warned Me Not To Get Pregnant For My Husband Because- Woman Narrates
Right from the beginning, my mother wanted me to marry a certain man because of his money. I told her politely, “I can’t marry this man. I don’t love him and I don’t see myself marrying someone I don’t love. Again, he’s way older than I am. I can’t marry him.” She insisted. Sh
e did all within her power to make me settle with that man but I didn’t succumb to her pressure. When the time was right, I introduced the one I wanted to marry to her and that was when the issue started.
She said no to us. She said she wouldn’t agree for us to get married. My dad was receptive. He was happy for me and encouraged me to go ahead with the marriage. My mom and my dad are no longer married. They got divorced long ago and have been living apart since then.
With encouragement from my dad and other siblings and our pastor, we decided to go ahead with the marriage. At a certain point, she came around and even decided to help sew my wedding dress and all the other costumes. We set a date for the wedding but due to delays from her end, we had to postpone the wedding. We fixed another date and when that date was also approaching, she said she was sick and will not be able to finish sewing the dresses for our wedding. We asked her, “So what date do you think would be favorable for you?” She chose a new date for us. God being so good, we were able to have a beautiful wedding on the said date that she chose.
After marriage, she started warning me not to get pregnant anytime soon. I asked, “How is that possible? I’m married now and the next thing is to bear children for my husband, so why shouldn’t I?” She said, “Remember the building you’re putting up for me. Finish that one first before children come in to distract you.” I started that building long ago before marriage. When my husband also came into the picture, I discussed it with him and he also agreed to come on board for us to complete it quickly. It had never occurred to me that giving birth will distract me from that building. If anything, we are committed to finishing it so she can move in as soon as possible. That day when she raised that view, I told her, “You have nothing to worry about. We’ll finish it for you.”
Right after our honeymoon, I got pregnant. She wasn’t happy when she got to know about the pregnancy. She never hid her displeasure. She woke up each day talking about how disappointed she was about my pregnancy. One day, right in front of her, I miscarried the pregnancy. She saw it with her eyes and knew the pain I was going through. I was devastated but there was nothing I could do. Right after the miscarriage, she started warning me again not to try to get pregnant. I didn’t care about her warnings.
One day I traveled to where my husband is stationed. But before going there, I passed by my mother’s place, spent a night there before going to my husband’s place. When I told her where I was going, she said, “Be careful you don’t go and get pregnant again. You have a project to accomplish. Finish that one for me first before you think about pregnancy.” I went to my husband’s place and came back. Another time, my husband came to visit me. I was in the room with him when my mother called me on the phone. She heard the voice of my husband and asked me, “I can hear voices. Who is that?” I said, “My husband is here.” Her mood changed immediately. She started ranting, “I’ve told you over and over again and I will repeat today. You better not get pregnant. You have to finish the building first.” She sounded like a broken record so I didn’t mind her.
Five months after the miscarriage, I got pregnant again. And again, I got a miscarriage. I cried. I was totally shattered. I asked myself, “How long is this going to continue?” I called my mom and told her I had miscarried again. I asked her, “Did you go through the same thing when you were young? Is there anything—any medications at all I could use to prevent these series of miscarriages?” She got angry. It was her first time knowing about that pregnancy so she made a case out of it; “Why do you have to get pregnant when I had told you in a clear language that you shouldn’t get pregnant until the project is done? You don’t want me to go and live in my new house? Why don’t you listen to me?”
It was all about her and the new house she desires to live in. Somehow I could understand her concerns. Where she’s currently staying is not comfortable at all. She needs to relocate and I understand her but if anything, it’s the same house she had lived and raised us for the past ten years so living in it for a couple of years wouldn’t change anything or hurt anyone. But this woman is using it as a reason for me not to get pregnant. My husband wants kids. Currently, kids are everything that would make him happy. I can’t deprive my husband of his happiness all because of a new building we have to put up.
I brushed her complaints and nagging aside and went ahead to get pregnant again. Currently, I’m three months pregnant. I haven’t told her anything about the pregnancy. I’ve told my dad about it and my elder brother also knows about it. We’ve all agreed not to tell my mom about it. My dad warned, “Never in your life tell your mom about this one until you deliver.”
“Until you deliver,” That’s where the problem lies. She’s my mother. Regardless of everything, she still remains my mother and I can’t keep her in the dark until the baby arrives. It will spark chaos and that chaos may spread through my marriage. I don’t want that to happen in my marriage. The last time she told me, “If you go ahead and get pregnant and later deliver, you better not bring that baby to where I live now. Know also that I won’t come to your house to help take care of the baby. First things first.” That threat didn’t bother me a lot. My mother-in-law is a loving person. She’s way over the moon about this pregnancy. When we asked her to come around when I deliver, she gleefully accepted and told us she couldn’t wait to come and live with us.
The problem now is whether or not to tell my mom about the pregnancy. I’m in between a rock and a hard place now. If I tell her, trouble. If I don’t tell her until delivery too she will make a huge issue out of it and make my life a living hell.
I’m confused. My husband and I don’t know what to do. We know what that woman is capable of doing when she gets to hear about a baby without getting to hear about the pregnancy that brought up the baby. She’s my mother and I love her regardless. But this one is beyond me. Kindly advise me on what next to do.
Adesoye Serifat Folasade
September 1, 2023 at 1:11 pm
Don’t tell her,I am a grandma, she loves herself more dan you because she doesn’t want you to marry dat man, keep d pregnancy and don’t go to where she is, God will protect you
Grace
September 1, 2023 at 4:01 pm
This girl is not a serious person, I beg. How can she not know that her mother is evil? If she tells her again then I know she doesn’t love her husband enough to have his children. What nonsense is this?
Lizzy
September 1, 2023 at 4:59 pm
Truth be told, ur Mum us fetish and has sworn within her that you must finish the house for her before you give birth as a result of disobeying her to go marry ur husband. That is why she’s tampering with ur pregnancy. Pls don’t even go near her for now till you give birth and always pray and cover ur pregnancy with the blood of JESUS CHRIST. Look for a real Man of God or Sister that will be praying with you till you deliver. May God come through for you in JESUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN 🙏.
JOHN
September 1, 2023 at 11:05 pm
Anti you are the problem to yourself.
When will you become wise in life.
How many times will you be a sacrificial lamb to your Mum.
Although I suspect that there’s something secret between your mum and you that you are not willing to tell us.
Ifeanyichukwu Omenka
September 1, 2023 at 1:13 pm
If your mother’s happiness is what matters to you most,then raise funds from anywhere, be it a loan or whatever and get the house 🏠 completed for her
Phillips
September 1, 2023 at 5:33 pm
You are a rebellious child, the woman said first thing first, why can’t you go with that? What elders sat down to see, if children climbed higher tree, he won’t be able to see it. The love you said you have for her is fake, not genuine, as your husband agreed with you on the building, why not continue and finish it first before your preg. What if you loose your life during birth? Think, act smart ok
Prince A Adewole JP
September 1, 2023 at 1:29 pm
Thank God you still have a lovely husband, but it may not be long before you lose him when he’s tired of you, because you love your mother more than you marriage. If you cherish your marriage and husband, stop this nonsense of telling your mum about your life,hence you will lose it all. A word is enough for the wise.
John
September 1, 2023 at 4:04 pm
You are not serious your mother lived her happy life and produced you because her mother wasn’t behaving like she’s doing now so please your life partner is your husband and your children so if she doesn’t want you to have kids then she wants you to remain miserable the rest of your life. Be careful the future is yours not for your mother
Amos Osayande
September 1, 2023 at 4:34 pm
GOD bless you for your good advice
Inaighan
September 1, 2023 at 2:08 pm
Your mother is your number One enemy. She is the couse of your incessant miscarriages and she is doing it through diabolic and fettish means. She is materialistic, that is why she wanted you to marry the rich man you didn’t love so she could use him to achieve her financial benefits. That is the same reason she opposed your marriage to your present husband. You and your husband are gullible, it is too bad you can’t see it from that angle. Her attitude is selfish and self centered. Run away from her, don’t let her know your whereabouts until you finish having your children or else, she will end up wiping out all the children in your womb and destroy you and your marriage.
UDEME Idang
September 1, 2023 at 2:35 pm
That’s true.I don’t know why she and her husband have refused to see the truth
Margaret Odera
September 1, 2023 at 3:15 pm
Tell your mom you are pregnant again and miscarry again if that’s what you want.
Why did you marry that man if your mom’s demands come first?
The choice is yours.
Ani Nkechi Blossom
September 1, 2023 at 5:19 pm
Nawa for so mothers o, how can you not be sensitive at this moment after series of miscarriages, she’s purely into witchcraft and selfish too. Your love for her is foolishness and stupidity now ,you better wake up before she land into early grave by then it will be too late to procrate or build a house for house. Witches are the most wicked and heartless beings on earth and you can’t escape from her easily if you are in their cage already especially when you are not prayerful ,she has a way of monitoring you even if you don’t tell about your life and she has already eaten you two children via miscarriages.You seriously need deliverance from the bondage she has it you into but before that can take place if you have made any kind promise to her in the past that not fulfilled yet like the house matter you talking about , go back to her apologize and give her reason why you couldn’t achieve that before marriage or your plan of building it gradually while still bearing children,if that didn’t work out then you have carry out counter attack because the best form of defense is attack, you can keep hiding and running otherwise your enemy will deal with you badly. If you don’t have what it takes to get a loan like someone advise previously it not by force or must to please your mum your life and happiness first, the economy is hard now and things have changed. I will advise you join any branch of Mountain of Fire Miracle ministries near you,they handle such case even the ones worse than that very well with their fierce antiwitchcraft prayers, being serioue and genuine child of God you must get a solution to problem.
Elijah Chinonso Ebere
September 2, 2023 at 7:00 am
Please kindly keep your secret motherless babies do survive talkless you a full grown adult, since your mother-in-law is alive and also a good woman always go to her she will take care of you GOD bless you
Peter Favour
September 1, 2023 at 2:11 pm
you and your are a stupid fools… don’t the two of know already by now that your mother is a black witch? are you so stupid to that extent? don’t you know she is the one giving you miscarriages? are you a fool? even your husband is an original stupid and foolish fellow. If you are truly willing to have that baby you are carrying right now, you better pregnancy away from your mom and make sure you find money to complete the house for her,,, if not? you are also going to loose the pregnancy too. mumu wife and husband
Steven ogunniyi
September 1, 2023 at 2:51 pm
Your mother is queen Herod simple she will kill your baby stay completely away from her even change your area of residence she is already harming you spiritually run for your life
E. J. Samuel
September 1, 2023 at 3:05 pm
How naive, miopic & permit me to say stupid u are. Ur so called love for u mother has blinded u & made u stupid to d facts that ur mother is d cause of ur problems. She is evil, selfish & self centered. She doesn’t love u one bit. Love isn’t stupid. If u r blind is ur pastor also blind? Facts before u doesn’t warrant advice. Common sense should make u flee from her, cut off any & every communications with her & if u don’t know Jesus Christ, surrender ur life to Him, for absolute protection, or else, like someone mentioned above, she’ll wipe out all ur children, possibly ur husband & make u be single like herself. It’s not mandatory u build her a new house if she has one already that can be renovated; however, if u people have d means complete what u started. Wise up woman, learn to fast & pray to God. As I was reading ur right up, I was angry in my spirit because of ur naiveness.
Boss Man
September 1, 2023 at 3:08 pm
To make it very simple for you, I will tell you point-blank that your mother is a witch which I believe your father knows about but has not mentioned to you and his warnings to you about you keeping your pregnancy secret from her suggests that. What I will say to you concerning your mother is that be very careful not to let her know anything about you again and also be prayerful
BABAJIDE BUNMI
September 1, 2023 at 3:13 pm
Please pray very well.Better still go enroll for deliverance in a bible believing Church so that you can be free from her spell and bewitchment if not,if she gets to know, the pregnancy will be terminated and if she gets to know when you deliver the baby’s life is at stake.
Raymond
September 1, 2023 at 3:22 pm
Them you are blind to keep believing in your mom. You think you are safe after kicking against you marrying this man. Remember Al the delay she puts in the marriage. The miscarriages yet no sense to think twice about this your mom. Let me tell you she will ruin your marriage and put the blame on you. Then shall your eyes open but it will be too late. The man is truly showing you love and you are busy dieing for the woman who doesn’t love you but materials. Have you taken time to ask why she left your father. Keep playing blind you will regret big time. How on earth will she put herself first before your future. Was it easy like that why didn’t she wait not given birth to you guys untill she build her house. Or did she build same to her mom and thinks you should pay back. I like investigation so that I don’t fumble in my actions.
My candid advice is that you should keep her in dark till the baby is delivered even months to avoid the stories that touched the heart.
If you anything happen to that child hold her responsible.
Be wise. And telling you from experience. My wife same with his father and my marriage is in a serious danger. Bewise and safe your home.
Tooe
September 1, 2023 at 3:24 pm
Your mum is selfish and wicked. If you are not careful she will ruin your marriage. My advice is this don’t tell her and avoid her like a plaque. Go Faraway. If you fail to produce your own lineage for continuity then you are doomed. Building would not be your generation. Right from genesis- revelation it is one generation to another not building. Don’t tell her if you want your lineage to exist. Thanks.
FUNMiE
September 1, 2023 at 4:31 pm
Is unfortunate that U can’t discernn! U/ husband should run to any Mountain fire church near U.Explain your problems to d pastor.U need a fire prayers to gt delivered frm this your selfish Mum.Dont tell her anything. Be wise!!
Bernard Ebiwenimoh
September 1, 2023 at 4:34 pm
You be mumu? Can’t you see the hand writing written on the wall? Somebody is killing you slowly and you’re there telling us you love your mother so much. Use your tongue to count your teeth.
Victor Ola
September 1, 2023 at 6:29 pm
I’m sure this story is pure fiction. Otherwise, you don’t love your life at all. You can go ahead and tell and then see how foolish you are.
Adeoti Titilayo
September 1, 2023 at 10:22 pm
Prov17:6 (NLT)
Grandchildren are the crowning glory of the aged; parents are the pride of their children.
No good mother will priotise house above grand children which are the glory of the grandmother, you and your husband are at the risk of losing your lifes if this issue continue, think about the effect/risk of miscarriage over health and and Union. This issue might get your husband tried and opt out from the marriage, also be careful so that your Mum will not kill your husband since she doesn’t want you to marry him in the first place
Don’t joke with this issue even though she is your Mum, please be prayerful.
If you building that building before you have baby for that man if you are not careful you will never have baby oryou will loose that man.
Eneh Augustine
September 1, 2023 at 3:43 pm
What advice are you looking for since you already know where your problem is coming from. Your mother is your problem and you can severe ties with her forthwith.
Dan
September 1, 2023 at 4:16 pm
This Lady I don’t think you love your self, if you do you would hate your mother for this, because I can see your mother don’t love you, do you think continue miscarriage would healthy your Life? You are damaging your life, if your mother truly love you she wouldn’t make you go through that because you building house for her, if you love your life keep your pregnant away from her now, you need your mother herself to tell you she was the one causes your miscarriage before you started to quarrel with her?
S kareem
September 1, 2023 at 4:19 pm
Pls don’t tell your mother. Keep it as a secret even if you put to birth be careful with her and the baby. Safe delivery.
Hito
September 1, 2023 at 4:33 pm
Be stupid to let her know. This one too will go!
Amos Osayande
September 1, 2023 at 4:47 pm
Stay far away from your mother if you want to have children of your own,the Bible says man should leave their parents and become one and what God almighty have joined together that no one else should put asunder, your mother is the asunder in your marriage,stay away from her,she doesn’t want better for you,not because of the building,but just about the man she wanted you to marry that you refused to marry,she pretend by hiding under the building project,be warned,I wish you the best and successful delivery in J.M.N AmeeeeeeeeN
John
September 1, 2023 at 4:48 pm
Your mother is the brain behind your miscarriage, she did’nt want you to have children of your own. If you love your husband and your family distance from that selfish and wicked mother. If you like allow her to use charm to manipulate your life. A word for a Wise.
DeborahJesus-Joel
September 1, 2023 at 4:59 pm
Is this story really a true life real event??? If this story is a Real life event…your mother is cruelLy-Selfish…it is not just ordinary…this issue is bewitchment Diabolic… Witchcraft..you better borrow wisdom of God and work with God in using the Blood of Jesus to Secure,Sustain, Protect, and Incubate your marriage…just because God gave you a good husband…you don’t understand?? your cruel mother is used her witchcraft covenant to bewitch your lunch life and manipulate your life, it’s not just about her desire for house…she is a Witch and had donated all those previous pregnancy in form of miscarriages,if you don’t borrow wisdom from God, Aaagh! God Himself will not be pleased with you…Aaagh! You better borrow wisdom from God. Are you Prayerful at all??? Do you read your Bible at All??? You Better Plead the Blood of Jesus Christ to Incubate your current Pregnancy till Delivery time, you better Plead the Blood of Jesus Christ to Incubate your own life, you better plead the Blood of Jesus Christ to Incubate your marriage you better plead the Blood of Jesus Christ to Incubate you husband’s life
Candid
September 1, 2023 at 5:02 pm
It’s just that you can not bring yourself to say it, deep down you, you believe that your mom is diabolical and responsible for your miscarriages. Embolden yourself, get pregnant again and don’t tell your mom. Convince your husband so both of you can take vacation outside the country where you can access good medical care and have your baby. The task of completing her house can be contracted out.
N a
September 1, 2023 at 5:17 pm
Build r my the house as promised
REV PRINCE DR MIKE TAIWO-OTUBELA
September 1, 2023 at 5:22 pm
It’s better you don’t tell her anything, about your pregnancy, because with the way am seeing it, your mother might be responsible for your miscarriage, through Diabolical means.
Richard Paul
September 1, 2023 at 5:27 pm
I don’t have kind words either as the previous concerned citizens, not telling her doesn’t deprive you of the fact that you love your Mum. Right within you also have some ???? hanging, to some extent you think she could be part of the cause.
Have you prayed about it? Is your Pastor aware.
Style up, pray as never before, cover the baby, and entire family under the precious blood of Jesus.
Stay blessed, if this is a true story come back at some point to tell us the progress, keep quite and avoid her till delivery,send all necessary support to her, keep the love too but tell her not.
Chinedu Michael Akwarandu
September 1, 2023 at 5:30 pm
Avoid your mother in your family affairs. Notwithstanding, do your best for her. You have seen why your both parents separated. Your daddy is has warned you. Please obeh him. Secondly you should be prayerful pray to cancel all the powers of darkness in your marriage.
Pst Michael Boye
September 1, 2023 at 5:33 pm
Although, truth is bitter, you only love your mom but your mom doesn’t like you come and talk of love you. To me, go to your pastor and for prayer for you should know that your mom only needs you and your husband to build house for her just because she doesn’t want to loose gallantly, in that you didn’t marry somebody she wanted you to marry. God bless you. Your way will be true. In Jesus Name. Amen.
Eselebor Eselebor
September 1, 2023 at 5:35 pm
Are you fool? What’s wrong with you? Thank God you have a humble husband. Your mom is a witch. Suffer not the witch to live. Don’t tell her. But do and build her the house 🏠🏡🏠🏡 you started long ago.
Mugisha David
September 1, 2023 at 5:36 pm
Everyone loves besides your mother, do you think you will not survive because of not telling your wicked mother? Don’t tell her let her hear the news from others after your succession
Aborkene Ephraim
September 1, 2023 at 6:39 pm
Why do you behave so childish and immature, even your husband, I know you could be overbearing even when your husband raise objection towards your mother’s mean stand on your progression in marriage because according to you”I love my mother” better find the happiness of your home and live your life according to your capacity, why allow yourself to be destroyed by your mom, whom you know her stubborn cum diabolic life style may be the reason of divorce with your dad, nne wisen up for your own good.
SAMUEL B ADODO
September 1, 2023 at 7:20 pm
You need to grow up. Stop donating your children to an evil mother.Take decisive action. Tell your Pastor or any other strong man of God for prayers, intervention & stoppage of your mother’s evil.
If you love your mother more than your life, your husband’s life, your marriage & your children to be, you can tell her.
You can’t run away from her, there’s no distance in the realm of the spirit. You mother is a spirit being. She will destroy you or your husband if you’re too care free.
Employ a higher spiritual power — “the Name & Blood of Jesus” to defeat her.
This is a battle neither you ñor husband or brothers/father can’t fight canally.
Mercy megwai udegbue
September 1, 2023 at 8:16 pm
Please don’t tell her, forget her if you want to be happy in life, move on with your life, almighty God will see you through, without your mom,live your life as one without a mother and hope in Jesus Christ, things will go well with you than living in perpetual boundage and affliction All in the name of having and pleasing your mom,
Helen Chinyere Nyebuchi
September 1, 2023 at 9:16 pm
My dear the healthiness of marriage is your priority now, your mom has had you people and you’re married make your own family. Only me I’ll say she’s witch hunting you, better keep silence on the pregnancy at her or else another miscarriage will follow and I tell you soonest your hubby’s behavior might change on you because he needs children to bless the marriage.
Imekan
September 1, 2023 at 10:43 pm
Madam you have to establish your own family leave your mother alone and go ahead to have your children
Esther
September 1, 2023 at 10:49 pm
I would like to say that ur mom is the cause of ur problem u don’t need a seer to tell because from the look of things she is targeting ur marriage in a way u would be able to get pregnant and anytime you tell her u always have a miscarriage so it is a sign for u to run far away her and anything that
concerned her and also u should also be prayer full because u are the only one that can make things work out for you in ur marriage so pray for ur husband too and commit the pregnancy to God and also to also exposed those that have to hand in ur previous miscarriage
Abraham
September 2, 2023 at 2:34 am
Give your life to Jesus Christ.He is the answer to the present situation. You must be prayerful not to loose your husband by any means, and that God should rise to fight your battle.You may not be able to fight this battle alone. Discuss with your Pastor.
Mr Osarfo
September 2, 2023 at 5:04 am
Don’t listen to your mom’s advice,why you don’t needed to have children for yourself? Or you like mom ,then to have own family. DeceRun away from your mom’s selfish interest and build your future family with your husband okay.
fyela
September 2, 2023 at 5:25 am
You are too naive madam
. heed the advice given by your mother and brother.. I hate dull souls
IBRAHIM Aduke
September 2, 2023 at 5:35 am
Please my dear daughter, don’t tell Ur mother,till you deliver the baby.. She has born you, you have to born your child too, your mom doesn’t like you at all.. don’t agree with all she is saying.. Don’t allowed her to turn your marriage upside down please.. Live your own life you will Excel IJMN..
Nothing will happen to you.God will grant you A safe delivery and your home will be blessed too by God’s Grace my dear…
Best of luck to you…
Makinde
September 2, 2023 at 6:02 am
Keep the pregnant without telling her and be praying.
Gooddey
September 2, 2023 at 6:16 am
If this story is true, you should know by now that your mother is demonic and that there is a demonic program surrounding your marriage. I will advise that you relocate to where your mother cannot trace or hear from you till you put to bed and you are able to handle your mum spiritually in prayers
Godson Ihechukwu
September 2, 2023 at 6:17 am
If you love your mother so dearly like you said, why didn’t you marry the rich man to prove that you love her more than your life. Yourother want to frustrate your marriage to the point of destroying it. Reason is because she want you to bow to her desire of you marrying a rich man. You love your mother that you don’t care about your father, elder brother and other siblings who supported you when you needed them? Are you so blind that you can’t see the red flag 🚩that your mother want to destroy your happiness and your home out of her selfish interests. OPEN YOUR EYES WOMAN
Grace ubioma
September 2, 2023 at 6:20 am
My dear telling your mom means you don’t want çhildren, your baby will go down o, please avoid her, and at the same time you can continue to develop the house and let her know about your progress towards the building
Prince
September 2, 2023 at 6:24 am
U & yr husband are seeing yr problem. Do u need a futune teller to tell u ur problem. U love her & she is distroying u. Is it till u die that u will be wise. Ur mum is yr problem. For now ignore her till u put to bed cus if yr not careful ur husband will leave u soon 4 u to go & leave with yr mother while he leave for a reasonable woman. Yr mum love house more than yr happiness. Is it when u old that u will hv yr children. Pls be wise b4 it will be too or bad late
Prophet Peter Onycha
September 2, 2023 at 6:35 am
Your mum is d course of ur continued miscarriages, u Shud be in spirit to know, n u r taking it lightly? I pray for u today, that all manners of projections n manipulations from ur mother to make u not to think straight n know d truth, is destroyed in Jesus name. But give ur life totally to Christ Jesus, n find a Bible believing n Spirit filled church around u to be attending. Then, u can’t be bewitched any more
Obetta Boniface
September 2, 2023 at 7:13 am
It is strange your is against you having children just for a house she will live in. Please don’t inform about this one too. Everything is pointing to her as being responsible for your previous miscarriages