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I Visited My Husband’s Village For The First Time Only To Find Out His Biggest Secret
A woman married to her husband for years has revealed shocking details she found when she visited her husband’s village for the first time. Begging many not to trust anyone, she shared her story.
For about 6 years I have been wedded to my husband and we have a fine baby girl, and we were a perfect couple I thought, till I went to his Village. Before we got married my husband was looking for job all around and then I helped him and to God be the glory he got one with well paid salary and an apartment with a car officially, and then not so long we got married because of the way things where going smoothly with both of us.
I was a fool to not to have noticed that when ever I bring up the issue about his Village he gets angry, I guess I was blinded by his love, care , God fearing and all the qualities a lady may want in a guy like him.
It got to a point where he then said that he may leave me if I every mention anything concerning his Village then I thought maybe his people did him wrong. Well before we got married he told me that his parents where no more and he doesn’t relates with his relatives well then I had doubt about him but he was too good.
But the good thing was that he didn’t keep his Village name hidden from me and I went looking for his Village just to confirm what may have really happened, I searched all over the Village for almost a mouth till I came across someone who managed to recognize his face on a photograph. Who claimed to to a relative to the man and took me to their house.
When I got there I was shocked though, seeing the boys in the house looking like my husband then My curiosity was heightened, so I introduced my self to the lady of the house and we talk, she revealed that the man in question was her husband too that the children I was seeing are her children and my husband’s.
And then again she told me of how they communicate and how he sends money to them always to take care of the family. To Confirm the whole story she called my husband and turned on the speaker and I recognize my husband voice on the phone so I left.
So I wondered how could he do this to me keeping such big secret and after all I have done for him. Thinking of how to confront him with the issue, and I lied to him that I went on a business trip too.
Who should I tell my baby girl, that I was stupid for all there years..? Should I end the marriage? Being heartbroken and I got all these questions running through my mind pls advice..
What’s your thought on this piece, we welcome your views in the comment section below:
Mubaraka niwa8
November 9, 2023 at 2:41 pm
Since he has never done you bad or disturbed you in any way, if he sexually does satisfy you the way you wish , if he gives you all the attention, if he shows you that he only has you as his love , if you are in good mood with him . PLEASE BE WITH YOUR MAN. HE WILL HAVE TO TELL YOU WITH TIME. ITS NOT YET TOO LATE
Olinga Margaret
November 9, 2023 at 4:59 pm
If I were you fellow lady, I wouldn’t destroy my marriage. I wouldn’t confront him either. I would stay calm and peaceful till he goes to the village and he too finds out that you were there and now know everything. Then the discussion would start from there. My dear never trust men. They are demonic
Mohamed Lamin Ngobeh
November 9, 2023 at 6:12 pm
If you love your husband and you didn’t want to separate with him and you want to keep the secret too, when ever he wants to get back home please tell him that you to travel with him and you love to see His home,if he allow you to travel with him,if he apologize try to understand because this Man must be an African person. If he’s doing all lovely care’s then patiently wait on Him, He will one day reveal the truth to you don’t be Hastings and do the wrong thing.
Muhereza Mark
November 10, 2023 at 7:14 am
What is done can’t be undone xo my dia since u love your husband stay with him and assume as if u don’t know anything .
Easyboy Josh Jay
November 10, 2023 at 11:29 am
God has Plan for you and the decision you’re going to make Let his power to be the one to guide BUT What I can tell you Sister Men of these days are not Trusted, I personally I’m also a Man so follow what your heart decide for you and Pray. Thanks
Joel MasangaOrifa
November 10, 2023 at 11:57 am
Jus get tell him the truth that no trip.you went to,er curius to know his home becaurse he was you have severely ask him to take you there.Don’t forget to tell him what you find out.
Mbagwu
November 10, 2023 at 1:14 pm
Once your husband is not religating his responsibility towards you and your child,you should continue to marry him and develope private welfare plan for your children.
Veronica
November 10, 2023 at 5:44 pm
If he’s a good man, don’t leave, it’s not easy to get a trusted man. Most of them play hide and seek games.
Man
November 10, 2023 at 8:11 pm
The man should just leave you immediately , because you don’t deserve marriage . Who the hell you think you are ?
Ambrose
November 12, 2023 at 4:42 am
Continue with your relationship if you love your husband bcoz to marry two wife it’s not the crime.
James
November 12, 2023 at 6:04 am
Why would you push for a divorce? You’re happily married until you poked your nose where it doesn’t belong, your husband has no problem. Remember curiosity killed the cat,blame yourself!
Herbert Mphepo
November 12, 2023 at 6:34 am
Eshiiii this is too much!! Anyway just agree and be the second wife to him
KALMANUEL
November 14, 2023 at 2:25 pm
Blood is thicker than water so my dear please, for your baby’s sake remain in marriage as longs he cares about you and your baby.
Emma kutegeka
November 16, 2023 at 12:44 am
Think twice it’s not yet late.if your husband loves you! well and good. Let him aware of your findings. And so don’t leave him coz in him, is your blessings likewise him
Omochi Onche
November 16, 2023 at 1:41 am
The man was a and still is a wicked and useless person. What was he hiding, that he has a wife and children. It is most unfair. The woman really loved him but this discovery she has no alternative than she either accept to be a second wife or quit the marriage.
Muhindo elimos
November 17, 2023 at 2:51 pm
No sweet hrt that is nt an issue if u are in gd condition with ur husband then there is no need to leave him wat u do be confident and confront him then u discuss on those issues more especially the village wife and u become one familly cz he has been facilitating them all along so dnt deny him.
Sam omudu
November 18, 2023 at 6:39 pm
But sorry then but that’s why it’s adviceable to know you partners background and flock with him together before proceeding but it’s now let hence memories evoking
Taiwo
November 19, 2023 at 7:52 am
My dear Sister, what is your problem? God so loved you and gave you a good and responsible husband who respect your feelings. He kept the secret away from you for fear of loosing the one loved.
Is having more than one wife a crime? Where in your holy book is marrying more than one wife a reason to go to hell. Keep your husband and give your daughter a brother or more. The world is moving towards polygamy. Do not deceive yourself. No man of value will prefer a single mother to a single lady nowadays.
And what gives you assurance that you can get a better? You are blessed already. Do not break what God blessed.
Taiwo
November 19, 2023 at 7:52 am
My dear Sister, what is your problem? God so loved you and gave you a good and responsible husband who respect your feelings. He kept the secret away from you for fear of loosing the one loved.
Is having more than one wife a crime? Where in your holy book is marrying more than one wife a reason to go to hell. Keep your husband and give your daughter a brother or more. The world is moving towards polygamy. Do not deceive yourself. No man of value will prefer a single mother to a single lady nowadays.
And what gives you assurance that you can get a better? You are blessed already. Do not break what God blessed.
Otabong Geoffrey
November 22, 2023 at 5:05 am
Take it simple, you are lucky he wedded you, relax and begin sending help to his family in the village
Let him discover by his own that you have known everything
You will have all the respect from that family.
Mandela MS. Rogers
November 25, 2023 at 2:34 pm
I advice that you continue to play your path in upholdind the relationship..God knows your effort towards his growth and development… Stay focus and don’t be a coward….Mandela MS. Rogers Writes
Komakec solomon
December 9, 2023 at 5:16 am
Please you just continue you have gone now far solong as he is giving you every thing